SHAHronizam n AMALlizawati WEDding

this BLog.........all about ... d' making of WEDding...... so similarity to my previous posts ..... about ..... Bruneian MAlay WEDdings ........ 

SPot ..........d' different... while Uu go along...... ok....

...... Get Marriage .....
                One should have ....a LOng Term ...... preparation .... ???

..... chosen bride .... ok .... so THInk ..Budget........ place of d' occasion .....

...d' ...Nearest place ... may bE ...called it ..........HOme.............

      Lots of THings  ..to think ..... so called preparation............. actually..

                  ...so  NO MENtion ...here ...

But ..NOt ....to let Uu ..down ..... a person should have .... known ..d' responsiblities ... d' FUTure ..... undertakings ...so ...so ...
...both ........male nn female .......of  Coz.........
.
                    ...... here .....(what happened ??)

FIrst ...Uu would nOt believe ........... this auspicious occasion would take place here...... looking  at  what ...............considered .......   mess ....... old cars ... unfinished house expanding  project ........... building materials... zinc .......bricks .....sand ....tiles .......etc ...                    wwwooww .........

...........went ahead as schedulled .........................
Could nOt wait any long ...by neck of times........   ready to Go.....................
...so Today..... d' Day......   THRee in ONe..............
 .......   a slight past hours ...of Friday prayers ......
                        ......................considered GOod timing....nn ...day...............

Eldest ...discussed ...what ....... to say ... what to submit ....   a list  to confirm ..........followed ........complusory ........ DOwry..... nn ......Gifts .....from d' Groom ....

.... so each.....Gift ....properly .... packed ... decorated ....assembled in numbers  .................................
        .............. rechecked..... reassured........ reconfirmed.... all right
D' multi-colouring flowers.....
                            ........was actually Betel Leaves..!!
   (..inherited  ..hardly divorce... something priceless Malay tradition ).......... 

NOT ..to miss........... prayers........ 
...............DOa... to break d' Ice..............

..................  so here...... randomly chosen .......... GIfts....... love's gifts........................................

All ............. family affairs.........
             ................served with refreshment ..........

...........  soon to leave ...moving out to d' bride 's house .....
CHosen...... youth ......better d'younger d' ages ......all related ....
                                     ............... to carry ............ trays with d' GIfts....

.......... Location of d' wedding places ...... just.... around 200metres .... apart both houses ...in d' same area   ........housing ...... 
        .........Kampung TUngku ........Gadong.....

..............so younger cousins.....nephews .......nieces ...helping hands to carry ...Gifts... DOwry..................................

............. d' groom representatives...welcomed ................
nn ...politely ....to take seats ................

.............all.......... arranged  trays............on floor...................................
...........Exchanged words ............ so host .....traditionally followed with politely questioning reasons of coming........... proceeding soon... given ...
satisfied statements replied....... so allowed to  surrender d'groom's DOWry .....followed .....GiFts of LOve.....
           so...... completed ........d' First agenda ..........
NExt..................

Called upon d' man to be married  ..today. .................
        Iman .........pointing out........briefing .......
.............d' Groom ....... soon to be hUsband .....

.......... came d' NIkah .......ceremony...................
.......witness ...... by..............

Bride at d' end corner ......listening ....... what supposed to be compulsory ........... as part of d' Imam's sermon....  preaching ...all listeners... present here........

.......... at d' End ....... once ..wedded........... nn .. witnesses ..said Ok....
Imam ...brought ..... d' groom ....to touch ..... d' bride...................

........to bLess d' Day ............... another ..DOa.... prayers ............
ALLah Almighty...please... Bless d' couple .......Future ...... wisdom ......Good welfare........etc........etc......

... so Husband ....nn..wife ...... confirmed....... !!!!
Sharonnizam Ahmad Arriffin bin Hj Md Saidi..........
 ................married to .............
Dayangku Amallizawati binti Pengiran Ahmad.......

........to shortern d' script ........
......... soon over ........after snap shots of special couple's pictures taken.......... d' Groom  allowed.......back to his home................ for another ........unfinished agenda ............all family's  business  ..........
Berbadak.... just a simple short ...customary ceremony...........of whitening powder ......  so called ..... translated..???

Uncles..... aunts...... all eldest ....... sisters ... blood relatives... came forward................ to bless ........ happy........... good future........ so...so...........

.......so NExt..........  another .......IMportant Day......

WEDDing DAy............................
       as set............limited guests ......invited.........

11.00 - 12.00pm.... so people began to come according to d' invitation card's programme

...so...Ready to welcome .............by family in .......
           ........light BLue............ colour...................

12.00 - 12.15pm ... accompanied nn guided...................................
......Groom ..uncles ..eldest......... met d' guests .....
....to express..........sincere .... Thanks

mAde....to preparing ....DAstar........

(not ALL able to make ONE .....looked easy folding kain songket)
.....to be worn.......

Head's Scarf .....made one as traditionally worn by Malay Warrior.... with ....Kris .....(as symbolized ..part of d' set's Wedding costume ............).

Groom met d' males'  camps ..........
......while Mum with sisters nn in-laws met d' females' camps .... 
........also to  greet ......thank d' guests.............
(in returned... some guests usually submitted envelopes contained cash B$.... as appreciation gifts nn donations .. part of helping hands... to brighten d family concerned ...???) 

............ while ...... guests being served .......................................
..... d' groom ready to wear wedding costume with d' helping relatives................... of somebody KNow-How ... to fashioning Looked... a macho Looked ....Malay Warrior ...eeee

12.15... soon ..after ..DOa ....
............ food served  ......but help Uur selves.........

12.55pm... schedulled... brideGroom .. to leave ......
        ....anyone ... happy to participate ... man's job .............???
so .....nephews ....... all d' way carrying Big .........
yellow...Candles.... man made flowering stands ......

............ marching to Bride's............home.............
.......d' invited guests ...just finished their meals.....

Used to BE............ only Royal .........allowed to use YEllow umbrella .......................................
....so called .......Raja SEhari.............
                     KIng on a DAy .....Throne ........  

.... Bless d'couple ...... with ...DOA.....
WEdding Ceremony ........... on ......... 
.....seated Couple ........on d' decorated stage....
         as called ......Pelamin...... ( indoor..........)

COUple brought to oUtside........... shown .....
               ......to ...Guests ...to ....public eyes...

.......... so what here .....
NOT to miss.....WATchhful...BLue ladies.. Posing ....
      .....be..supporters..... bridegroom's....Group

so....LUcky........ next supporters ..........?????
        ...................d' blue's gentalmen....abble to pose with .....newly wedding couple...........  ah...

             ....plus............ free style .......cheeersss
           
 SELAmat PENGANtin Baru.......... !!!!!

                Shahron ....... nn 
                        ...Amallizawati .....

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